Seduction doesn't just happen in the bedroom. In fact, if you wait until just before sex you're already too late. Seduction isn't tearing each other's clothes off (not to say that doesn't work in a pinch).
Seduction is about mood. Set the mood early by being nice. Find something you like about your partner and tell them. Focus on how sexy, romantic and kind your partner is and reward those random acts of kindness.
A day before or maybe the morning of your better sex Valentine's Day, send your partner a sexy voicemail, email, IM or junk the technology and leave a good, old-fashioned handwritten note on her pillow. Remember that this note is setting the mood, so be sure to tease and inspire while being specific enough that your partner knows where to meet you and what to wear (if anything).
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